5 Ways to Support Your Child During the College Admission Process

August 10, 2024

The college admission process is a significant milestone in your child’s life. As a parent, you can be a great resource to help them navigate this journey affectively.

Here are five strategic ways you can support your child through the admissions process, ensuring they feel prepared, confident, and supported every step of the way: 

1) Start Early:

Help your child begin the college search and application process early. BIC coaches will create a timeline together with your child that includes important dates like application deadlines, test dates, and campus visits. Ideally, students should begin the application process during the spring semester of their junior year. This leaves enough time to work on their personal statement and supplemental essays during the summer before the busyness of their senior year kicks in.


2) Look Beyond the Rankings:

Finding the perfect university for your child is about more than looking at the highest ranking schools; one size doesn’t fit all! Finding a match means looking at quality programs for your student’s chosen area of study and ultimately, finding a place that feels like home. Discuss the various aspects of college applications with your child, including their preferences for size, location, majors and culture of potential colleges. It’s important to listen to their concerns and expectations, provide guidance, and remember that ultimately the decision is theirs. This open line of communication can relieve stress and build confidence. BIC coaches will help students create a list of Reach, Match, and Safety universities that checks off all of the boxes on their list.


3) Focus on Financial Planning:

Understanding the financial aspects of attending college is crucial. The BIC team can assist your family in researching scholarships, grants, and other financial aid options. Within one of the first meetings, coaches will ask parents to join our session to discuss important topics like budget and financial aid. Work together to create a budget and understand the implications of student loans, helping them make informed decisions that align with family financial resources.


4) Support Academic and Test Preparation:

Help your child prepare for standardized tests like SAT or ACT by investing in resources such as tutors, prep books, or online courses if necessary. Even though some schools have become “test-optional” since the pandemic, it is still extremely important for students to submit a standardized test score if they hope to be admitted to a highly selective school or if they hope to receive a scholarship.


5) Provide Emotional Support:

The stress of college applications can be significant, so it’s essential to recognize when your child might need a break or a morale boost. Set aside regular time to discuss how they’re feeling about the process—not just the highs but also the inevitable setbacks. The BIC team (Academic and Family Partners) make sure to keep parents informed on the process and if they feel your student is getting overwhelmed, they will let you know. Celebrate every small victory, whether it’s completing an application essay or receiving a positive response from a college.

These actions will help maintain their emotional well-being and remind them that their value extends far beyond their college acceptances. Wherever they end up, they will succeed!

Written by Cara Duffy, Application Coaching Coach for BIC.

Cara graduated from The Catholic University of America Summa cum laude with a BA in Political Science in 2019. After graduating, Cara received a Fullbright Grant to teach English in Mexico, where she’s lived ever since. She has recently received a Master’s in Public Policy at IBERO. 

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